What code version are you running? VLAN member all was fixed to work along time ago for ELS products and SW.
At this point you probably need to send config for both switches. If you can send show configuration | more and put into text doc, and also send (for both) show configuration | display set | more and also put that in text doc - easier to manipuate through.
BTW, have you open a TAC case and asked them to review your config??